{"id":16952,"date":"2022-02-10T20:54:35","date_gmt":"2022-02-11T01:54:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peopletekcoaching.com\/staging\/?p=13318"},"modified":"2022-03-12T19:08:38","modified_gmt":"2022-03-13T00:08:38","slug":"over-using-a-strength-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peopletekcoaching.com\/staging\/2022\/02\/10\/over-using-a-strength-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Overusing A Strength"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"16952\" class=\"elementor elementor-16952\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1a55bb2b dsvy-col-stretched-none dsvy-bg-color-over-image elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1a55bb2b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-54255791 dsvy-bg-color-over-image\" data-id=\"54255791\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-52449600 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"52449600\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Overusing a Strength Can Be Detrimental<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Does the concept of overusing a strength make sense?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Last week we recommended using a checklist to help track what you want to accomplish.<\/p>\n<p>This week we want to recommend that you create a checklist of your strongest skills and behaviors and assess where you may be over-using that strength.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ll use &#8220;communication&#8221; as an example.&nbsp; Let\u2019s say you\u2019re a strong communicator.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Consider:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Are there times when you provide too much information?<\/li>\n<li>Have you been known to dominate conversations or highjack meetings?<\/li>\n<li>Do all email recipients have a &#8220;need to know&#8221; or are you over communicating?<\/li>\n<li>Does the receiver of your message &#8220;get it&#8221; yet you ramble on?<\/li>\n<li>Do you talk more than you listen?<\/li>\n<li>Is your message too lengthy and as a result not read in its entirety?<\/li>\n<li>Are you disregarded for talking too much?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Other considerations:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Are you mainly fact based and lacking empathy in your delivery?<\/li>\n<li>Could you do more to minimize discomfort when communicating a difficult message?<\/li>\n<li>Do you take into account how others may feel from your message?<\/li>\n<li>Do you ask others for their perspective, views, and interpretation of your message?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Over-communication can have negative consequences and consequences for under-communicating can be even worse. Be aware of your audience and don\u2019t over-use your communication skills.<\/p>\n<p>This applies to all strengths; be aware that when over-used they can be detrimental.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>An incoherent email is like a puzzle that people have to solve before they can take any significant action.\u2014<\/em>John Rampton<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Overusing a Strength Can Be Detrimental Does the concept of overusing a strength make sense? Last week we recommended using a checklist to help track what you want to accomplish. This week we want to recommend that you create a checklist of your strongest skills and behaviors and assess where you may be over-using that strength. We\u2019ll use &#8220;communication&#8221; as an example.&nbsp; Let\u2019s say you\u2019re a strong communicator. 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